Misc things that pass the vibe check

People

• Guests that arrive to gatherings with offerings in hand
• People that quietly offer others a chance to save face in embarrassing situations
• Bosses that start off check-ins by asking how you are, and mean it
• Teachers that make you feel like you discovered something yourself
• Romantic relationships where you feel like a team
• Friends that try to solve your problems behind your back
• Anyone with earnest excitement
• When someone has long term friends
• Noticers. People that clearly have background processes that intake their environments to observational ends.
• Armchair anthropologists with a value neutral or positive slant.

Things

• Software that reminds you when your subscription is about to renew
• Acknowledgement sections on any pieces of work
• Abundant, well written documentation that helps download tacit knowledge, unspoken cultural tidbits, and lore
• Fun calendar invite titles